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Aug 29
7m 44s

IF IT'S NOT A YES, IT'S A NO

Mafe Anzures
About this episode

How many times have you said “yes” when deep down you knew it was a “no”? In this episode, we talk about the power of listening to your intuition and honoring your boundaries.

Whether it’s in relationships, work, or with yourself, learning to live by “If it’s not a yes, it’s a no” can transform the way you make decisions and the way you show up for yourself. Tune in to discover how to recognize hesitation as guidance, set healthier boundaries, and create stronger, more authentic connections.

If you’re ready to stop second-guessing and start trusting your inner voice, this conversation is for you.

With love, Mafe.


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