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R*ped By My Uncle for 10 Years

Devorah Roloff
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For the first time, Raven is sharing the story she has never told anyone—about the abuse she survived starting at just 3 years old, and how it shaped every part of her life. She has carried this silence for decades, but now is ready to turn her pain into purpose and speak out for others who can’t.


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https://instagram.com/ravenpilled

contact@ravenpilled.gay


00:02:14 How is it helpful to share trauma publicly?

00:04:24 What's it like being separated from your biological parents?

00:04:58 What are different ways people remember abuse?

00:15:14 How do abusers threaten kids into keeping silent?

00:29:23 How do kids get left in dangerous situations?

00:35:46 What do parents blame symptoms of sexual assault on?

00:40:28 What's it like when your parents are on drugs?

00:40:63 Do ADHD people have low dopamine?

00:41:46 How do people judge other people who live in a messy place?

00:43:17 What's it like not being allowed to see your own mom?

00:50:52 Why do people abuse computer duster?

00:53:48 What's it like going to a parents funeral as a child?

00:59:57 What are "exit points"?

01:15:49 Does alcohol increase the risk of abuse?

01:20:39 What's it like watching your abuser die?

01:22:07 What are signs to look for to see if a child is being abused?

01:26:23 Should there be a death penalty for people who abuse children?

01:30:31 How does abuse effect your social life?

01:32:00 How do drugs effect a teenager's brain?

01:50:49 How does being isolated as a kid effect future relationships?

01:52:33 How does assuming someone's gender make them feel?

02:00:06 How do traumatic cycles repeat?

02:02:14 Why do we block out shame?

02:12:08 What is a bad trip on psychedelics?

02:19:30 What's it like coming out to your family?

02:29:38 What's it like becoming homeless overnight?

02:36:00 What's it like living in your car?


Topics: Family Trauma, Familial Abuse, Therapy, Recovery, Childhood Trauma


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