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Aug 21
1h 4m

NOT BEHIND, JUST BLESSED DIFFERENTLY

Alexandra Centomo
About this episode

Why does it feel like some people get to “find themselves,” take their time, or have their spiritual awakening in the south of France… while others are just trying to survive?


From timelines to healing to aging gracefully, we unpack how fast we’re expected to grow up, to whether we even have time to “do the work.” We also share how we personally navigate gratitude, guilt, and awareness, and how we're learning to balance ambition with compassion.


This is a conversation about empathy, nuance, and recognizing that not everyone starts at the same place (or moves at the same pace).



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