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Aug 19
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Women Can Tell If You Watch Too Much Por...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Ever wonder why you feel insecure around women? In a raw interview, thought leader and podcaster Frank Rich (“The Super Human Life”) joins dating coach Connell Barrett to reveal the hidden culprit that may be hurting your confidence: porn addiction. Rich opens up about his own battle, and explains how watching too much porn leads to objectifying women and kills dating motivation. He also shares his 5-step roadmap to freedom, so you can live and love authentically—without porn or shame.

02:44: Why Porn Addiction is Not What You Think

11:46: How Porn Replaces Real Romantic Connection

15:59: Frank’s Raw Story: From Shame to Redemption

24:40: The Hotel Incident that Changed Everything

29:25: Why Facing Consequences Is the Key to Defeating Porn Addiction

41:35: The 5-Step Roadmap for Rebuilding 

48:08: The Subtle Tells Women Pick Up On within Minutes

LISTEN TO FRANK RICH’S SUPER HUMAN LIFE PODCAST: Available on all major podcast platforms

CHECK OUT HIS INSTAGRAM:@‌CoachFrankRich

JOIN FRANK RICH’S COMMUNITY:Visit http://Skool.com/rebootyourlife for his community helping men quit porn and rebuild their lives

BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:http://DatingTransformation.com
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