They say you either have charisma or you don’t, but Charlie Houpert proves charisma can be built, and reveals the secret code to mastering it for success in love, work, and friendship
Charlie Houpert is the co-founder of the confidence-building online platform, ‘Charisma on Command’. He is the author of books such as, ‘The Anti Pick Up Line: Real Habits T ... Show More
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Most Replayed Moment: Sleep Expert On The Truth About Melatonin And Magnesium
Matthew Walker is a neuroscientist, sleep expert and bestselling author known for his research on how sleep impacts the brain, body and longevity. In this moment, he explains the truth about melatonin, phones before bed, and the one sleep habit that predicts longevity more than t ... Show More
44m 32s
Jun 22
Dr Rachel Rubin: Women’s Sexual Health, Menopause, Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), and Orgasms!
Women’s sex lives are being quietly destroyed, and their doctors don’t even know it… Sexual medicine specialist Dr Rachel Rubin reveals the hidden hormone crisis, how prescription drugs can impact sex, and the treatments most doctors aren't prescribing like Hormone Replacement Th ... Show More
1h 47m
Jul 2025
Supercharge Your Charisma [Social Intelligence Brief]
If you’ve ever felt invisible in a room full of people, it’s not your personality—it’s your presence. In this episode of Social Intelligence, AJ and John unpack the three research-backed traits that make people charismatic, memorable, and magnetic—whether you're an introvert or n ... Show More
19m 12s
May 2025
3 Tips to Grow Your Charisma Instantly [Social Intelligence Brief]
Charisma isn't just for extroverts or performers—it's a scientific advantage that determines how often you're invited, trusted, and remembered. In this episode of Social Intelligence, AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak reveal why people decide how they feel about you before they eval ... Show More
21m 37s
Mar 2025
The Art Of Effortless Confidence & Social Persuasion - Vanessa Van Edwards - #917
Vanessa Van Edwards is a behavioral researcher, speaker, and author. How do you make a great first impression? How can I become more charismatic? How can I stop feeling awkward in social situations? We've all wondered about these things at some point. Luckily, Vanessa is an exper ... Show More
1h 22m
Oct 2025
451. Charisma is learnt and how to master it.
In this episode, I talk about the neuroscience behind charisma, what makes someone magnetic, why it’s more about connection than confidence and how to build it (no matter your personality type). Whether you’re introverted, extroverted, or somewhere in between, charisma isn’t abou ... Show More
34m 49s
Aug 2025
You’re Listening Wrong: Why Charisma Is About What You Feel, Not What You Say [Social Intelligence Brief]
AJ and Johnny reveal the hidden layer of charisma most people ignore—what they call “conversation radar.” It’s not about perfect lines or clever comebacks, but tuning into tone, timing, and what’s left unsaid. Drawing on client stories, dating experiments, and neuroscience, they ... Show More
15m 29s
Apr 2025
How to Vibe With Anyone [Social Intelligence Brief]
Are you missing the skill that actually determines success? In this episode of Social Intelligence, AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak reveal how to create genuine connections in high-stakes situations - whether it's a first date, business lunch, or million-dollar meeting. This maste ... Show More
22m 44s
Mar 2025
The Secret Habits Of Supercommunicators - Charles Duhigg - #909
Charles Duhigg is a journalist, speaker, and author. Effective communication is the foundation of any strong relationship. While some excel at it naturally, others struggle to express themselves and often get misunderstood. So, what are the best tips to become a master communicat ... Show More
1h 13m