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Aug 2024
19m 4s

How to Flirt 😉 🥵

Coffee and Cleavage
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In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary dive into the art of flirting to share fun and effective tips for men on how to engage women confidently and genuinely. From giving specific compliments and using open-ended questions to playful teasing and flirty body language, this episode is packed with practical advice. What is your favorite way to flirt? And is Gary right—should men avoid complimenting women's shoes? Tune in to find out!


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