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Aug 13
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Overcome Insecurity and Boost Self-Estee...

PATRICK KING
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00:02:14 Chapter 2. Core Beliefs and Automatic Thoughts

00:05:15 Where Lack of Confidence Comes

00:13:31 See if you can notice any of these patterns in your own thinking

00:23:27 Takeaway


The Confidence Formula: May Cause: Lower Self-Doubt, Higher Self-Esteem, and Comfort In Your Own Skin (Be Confident and Fearless Book 8) By: Patrick King


Hear it Here - https://bit.ly/ConfidenceFormulaKing


https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0994VF5XH


Join us as we dive into Patrick King's book, "The Confidence Formula: A Cognitive Model for Building Unshakable Self-Confidence." In this episode, host Russell Newton, of Russell Newtown MG, explores the roots of insecurity and how to transform negative self-beliefs into a solid foundation of confidence. Learn practical strategies from Dr. David M. Clark's cognitive model to identify and challenge your insecurities, such as rumination, lack of confidence, social anxiety, and fear of public speaking. Understand the importance of self-monitoring and safety behaviors while exploring the role of automatic thoughts in shaping our expectations and core beliefs. Discover how to reframe your negative bias filter to embrace positive communication skills and strengthen your emotional immune system. If you struggle with self-doubt, fear of social interactions, or a lack of confidence, this episode is for you. Learn how The Confidence Formula can help you break free from the cycle of insecurity and live a more confident and fearless life.


Tags: #NewtonMG #Insecurity #Rumination #SelfEsteem #AdrianWells #CoreBeliefs #Expectations #PatrickKing #DavidMClark #MentalHealth #SocialPhobia #RussellNewton #SocialAnxiety #CognitiveModel #SelfMonitoring #SafetyBehaviors #AutomaticThoughts #LackOfConfidence #SocialInteractions #CommunicationSkills #NegativeBiasFilter #SelfFulfillingProphecy.





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