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Nov 2017
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3. Creating Self-Confidence

KARA LOEWENTHEIL
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On this episode, we take a look at how most of us try to “fix” our lack of confidence and examine why trying to accomplish something external will never solve this issue. Join us as I explain how self-confidence really works and how you can begin creating it in your own life.

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