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Aug 10
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Most People Get Confidence Completely Wr...

ERIKA DE PELLEGRIN
About this episode

Want to feel more confident in your everyday life, work, or relationships? 


In this special compilation episode, I’m sharing 5 powerful confidence lessons shared by past guests — insights that I wish I heard years ago. These aren’t your typical surface-level tips. Each one is a mindset shift that quietly changes everything.


Whether you struggle with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or just want to show up more powerfully, these guest moments will help you build real, lasting confidence from the inside out.


🔑 In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • What confident people actually do differently
  • Why backing yourself is more important than being perfect
  • How to let go of the fear of being seen
  • The surprising mindset that builds unshakable self-worth
  • Real stories that prove confidence is built — not born


🎧 These are 5 standout moments you’ll want to revisit anytime you need a boost.


TIME STAMPS

(00:00) Lesson 1 - Saana

(05:03) Lesson 2 - Nimi

(10:10) Lesson 3 - Ellie

(13:34) Lesson 4 - Sureena

(17:19) Lesson 5 - Davina



WHO AM I?

My name is Erika and I am an Australian living in Dubai. I have my own business as a strategic legal consultant and run this podcast to explore my passion + curiosity for all things health, wellness, self growth & mindset. A big focus of mine is how to sustainably navigate a busy schedule and live my best life in the process. Welcome to my Channel! 📸 Connect with me on IG!


RESOURCES

▶︎ 25 Day Self Development Marathon

▶︎ 21 Day Self Growth Challenge

▶︎ Goal Setting System E-Book


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