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Dec 2023
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If You Hear THIS, You're About to Get Yo...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode
How do you know if someone’s really over their ex? Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: “Is this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?” This is a really important topic in today’s episode, and my answer to this probably isn’t what you’d expect.  Give it a listen to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential.

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