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Jul 2025
56m 49s

How To Deal With Self-Hatred - Blaise Ag...

HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS
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In this episode, Hunter Clarke-Fields speaks with Dr. Blaise Aguirre about the difference between typical teenage self-doubt and deeper self-hatred, exploring how parenting and environment shape a child’s self-perception. They discuss the role of sensitivity in emotional health and the link between borderline personality disorder and self-hatred. Dr. Aguirre ... Show More
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