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Jan 2022
55m 59s

2. self hate, self sabotage & inner chil...

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
are you struggling with self love and find yourself falling back to self sabotaging behaviours ? If so, it's time for you to understand what's actually driving you towards these behaviours and how you continue to stay in the cycle of self hate. It's time for you to get introduced to the concept of developmental splits within your own identity based on your upbringing. If you want to glow up into the best version of yourself so that you can have good relationships, abundance and ultimately happiness, this one is for YOU girlie 🦋

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