logo
episode-header-image
Jul 25
36m 3s

advice session 3

Unwell
About this episode

this week I am talking about your stories and questions that you wrote in by unraveling a truly unhinged advice email about a boy who numbers his sexual partners (yes, literally gives them numbers), has a thing for helicopters (???), and ghosted a listener after prom. we also get into what real friendship looks like (spoiler: it’s not telling you to “do it for the plot”), how to move on from villains you dated, and unexplored queerness in committed relationships. loved getting to yap with you after 3 days in the desert

Up next
Yesterday
Stop breastfeeding ur boyfriend
i was supposed to talk about female friendships in this episode but instead i spiral about the summer i turned pretty the rise of ai and why your boyfriend is not your son and shouldn’t be your only friend like why are you breastfeeding him emotionally get a gripwe get into man k ... Show More
1h 1m
Aug 1
Fighting my nicotine demon and the summer I turned pretty
I spent a week withdrawing from vyvanse, nicotine and caffeine all at the same time and this episode is the result of that. Enjoy 
46m 38s
Jul 18
everyone is lying about their lore and I have an ant infestation
this week I am grappling with ants in my pillows, getting rage baited by my landlord and the idea that the stories you tell yourself about your past form your ‘life story’, therefore your perception of yourself and therefore the behaviour of your future self. and what if we can r ... Show More
41m 28s
Recommended Episodes
Aug 2024
(Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again
Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?”   The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that m ... Show More
34m 10s
Jan 2025
139. Catching Feelings For Your FWB, Post-Sex Ghosting & When They “Can’t Commit”
In this episode, I'm answering YOUR dating dilemmas! Hear three real issues from daters just like you. The first question is about what to do after having sex on date two... and they've fallen off the face of the earth after being so charming (ugh). The second one is about moving ... Show More
23m 54s
Jun 23
(Matt Monday): The Brutal TRUTH About Relationships You Need to Hear
I have something really cool to share today, This is a conversation I had with Jay Shetty for his On Purpose podcast, where we talked about the modern dating dilemma of endless options and the fear of settling. We discussed the danger of always looking for “someone better” as a d ... Show More
21m 17s
Sep 2024
It's Me, Tinx Live: It's Not The Guy, It's The Guy's Best Friend
The saying goes, "what's meant for you will not pass you by" & that's the theme of today's episode. We chat about parents having influence over your love life, spinning the block on past relationships, & an epic Summer of Outside follow up with a plot twist!Ask Tinx Anything by e ... Show More
51m 18s
Oct 2024
(Matt Monday): If You Want To Find Love With The Right Person, Pay Attention To THIS...
Tired of dating the wrong people? When we really want to find a relationship, saying “no” to the people who don’t align with our core values can feel scary . . . especially when we’re not meeting a lot of people we connect with. We may even start to loosen our standards and becom ... Show More
13m 39s
Oct 2024
Sick of Guys Ghosting? Here are 3 Reasons Why It Keeps Happening
Have you ever wondered why that seemingly perfect date ended with radio silence?You're not alone.So, in today's podcast, we're diving deep into three reasons men ghost.Remember, knowledge is power. Equip yourself with the insights you need to navigate the dating ma ... Show More
40m 35s
Feb 2025
Dating Horror Stories & Dilemmas
Ghosting exes, cringe-worthy first dates & dating co-workers gone wrong. We share and dissect the dating horror stories sent in by you chicks just in time for Valentine’s Day. Plus, we chat the weirdest things we’ve heard someone say after sex & discuss how to get over a breakup ... Show More
28m 43s
Nov 2024
(Matt Monday): 7 Reasons You’ll Never Get Closure From a Narcissist
The rules are different when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. You may walk on eggshells, question yourself, or feel like you can never do anything right in their eyes. And if they break up with you? It only leaves you with more confusion.   So what’s the right move in ... Show More
18m 38s
Jun 24
Why you can't get over the person you never even dated
Why do situationships hurt more than actual relationships? Because there’s just enough hope to keep you delusional. We’re getting into why they mess with your head, how they keep you stuck, and the wildest stories from our personal archives. Like the guy who “ordered” Chloe a dre ... Show More
35m 52s
Feb 2025
(Matt Monday): The Real Reason Your Ex Broke Up With You
There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pre ... Show More
26m 59s