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Sep 2024
51m 18s

It's Me, Tinx Live: It's Not The Guy, It...

Tinx
About this episode

The saying goes, "what's meant for you will not pass you by" & that's the theme of today's episode. We chat about parents having influence over your love life, spinning the block on past relationships, & an epic Summer of Outside follow up with a plot twist!

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