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Jul 10
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Right Person, Wrong Time - Listen to Thi...

Violet Benson
About this episode

Ring ring… hellllllo? It’s your big sis Violetta coming to your rescue!


Hi besties!! It’s the second week of the month, and you know what that means: a brand new episode of Ask Violetta. But today, we’re doing things a little differently... We’re answering just one question. But not just any question—the one that haunts your group chat at 2am:

“What if they’re your soulmate… but the timing’s off?”

You swear they’re the one. Your twin flame. Your human dopamine hit. Every text gives you fanny flutters. But fate? She’s a petty little b*tch. Wrong place. Wrong time. Right person. It’s a tale as old as time… so what the hell do you do??? Listen to this episode obviously!


So if that’s you, hit play. If it's your bestie, hit send.

Because someone in your group chat needs to hear this before it's too late.


By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly what to do. And if that means letting go? I’ve got you boo, with 9 steps to detach like the hot unbothered queen you were always meant to be.

P.S. Don’t forget... the right people are timeless. <3


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