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Jul 25
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Healing Childhood Trauma & Parenting wit...

The Masoom Minawala Show
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An unflinching deep dive into childhood trauma, healing, and conscious parenting with trauma-therapist and memory-rewire specialist Riri Trivedi. In just one hour, you’ll hear why the smallest family moments can scar — or save — an entire generation.From courtroom ambitions to inner-child crusader: Riri began her career armed with a law degree and MBA, but a series of life-changing encounters with survivors of abuse pulled her toward psychotherapy. Trading boardrooms for therapy rooms, she has now led 10,000+ sessions, pioneered memory reconsolidation techniques, and helped countless parents break cycles of hurt — proving that your past doesn’t have to be your child’s future.Conversation Highlights- Body Memories Don’t Delete: why trauma imprints on nerves, not just minds, and what that means for self-control.- The Mother Who Stopped Hitting: a gripping success story that shows anger can transform into connection.- Emotional Neglect: how “silent treatment” and busy schedules harm kids more than we think.- Humming, Tapping, Breathing: simple nervous-system hacks Riri prescribes for meltdown moments — child and parent.- Discipline Without Yelling: letting children fail safely, setting firm boundaries, and apologizing when you slip.- Breaking Generational Patterns: the exact steps to neutralize triggers before they reach the next generation.If you’re a parent, future parent, or anyone still carrying a childhood wound, this episode is your mirror and your manual. Press play to understand, heal, and rewrite the story you pass on.Key Takeaways- Trauma Lives in the Body — Not Memory Alone.- Self-Regulation Beats Punishment Every Time.- Apologizing Models Strength, Not Weakness.- Letting Kids Fail Builds Real Resilience.- Forgiveness Starts with Neutralizing Your Triggers.Watch at 1.5x speed for a faster, more efficient listen.00:00 – Introduction02:00 – "She Was Abusing Her Child"04:38 – Emotional Neglect Is Trauma06:58 – Children Know When You're Fighting10:03 – Caring For Kids As Working Parents13:57 – Passing On Generational Trauma17:59 – Our Body Has Memory20:35 – How To Self-Regulate Your Emotions22:43 – Do Not Say This To Your Child27:53 – How To Forgive Your Parents30:47 – When Talk Therapy Is Not Enough32:23 – How To Deflect Trauma Triggers39:25 – Parents Must Learn To Apologize42:06 – Dealing With Your Child's Ego45:48 – Why Toddlers Hit & Bite49:34 – How To Deal With Tantrums57:08 – Making Your Child Feel Safe & Independent🎙️ About the show:Hosted by Masoom Minawala, The Masoom Minawala Show brings honest, vulnerable conversations with changemakers, creators, and entrepreneurs. Every episode is designed to spark personal growth and meaningful change.About Masoom: Masoom Minawala is a global influencer, entrepreneur, and content creator passionate about empowering women and promoting Indian talent worldwide.With over a decade of experience, Masoom has been featured in Vogue, CNN’s 20 under 40, and HSBC’s list of leading female entrepreneurs worldwide. She’s worked with over 500+ global brands, represented India at the Cannes Film Festival red carpet, and delivered impactful talks.Want to buy my book? It’s a no-filter guide to turning setbacks into success — and building a business that actually works. Get it here: https://www.amazon.in/Shell-Never-Make-Journey-Dominance/dp/9353458528📲 Social Media:My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masoomminawala/My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/masoomminawala/

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