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Jul 2
1h 7m

Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting...

Shane Kohler
About this episode
You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?  

In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that comes from fear of not being chosen. You’ll discover the signs that his uncertainty isn’t about timing—it’s about incompatibility—and how every day you spend in limbo teaches him how to value you.

Most importantly, we’ll talk about what it takes to choose yourself with confidence, release the fantasy of “one day,” and create space for a relationship that’s ready for you now.

If you’ve ever felt trapped between hoping he’ll step up and fearing you’re wasting your time, this conversation will bring the clarity and courage you’ve been searching for.

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