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Aug 2024
23m 29s

Sexual Attraction 🤯

Coffee and Cleavage
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Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary dive into a conversation about sexual attraction, exploring surprising insights into what makes someone irresistible. They discuss whether they're drawn to people who look like us or resemble our parents and consider how factors like alcohol and working out might influence attraction. They all share their own stories about drinking gone wrong and playing hard to get. Plus Gary, is curious how to find an older woman who will take care of him who doesn’t remind him of his mom. 



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