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Jul 2
13m 53s

Readiness and other myths

Dr. Cathryn
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Still waiting for your toddler to want to use the potty? You’re not alone—and you’re not doing anything wrong. In this episode, Dr. Cathryn shares why the traditional “wait for readiness” advice might be leading to more stress, not less. You’ll learn: 🚽 Why your smart, capable toddler might be avoiding the potty 🧠 How readiness isn’t a fixed mileston ... Show More
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