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Feb 2025
17m 59s

94: Good Consistency vs Bad Consistency

Jamie Glowacki
About this episode

In this week's episode of Oh Crap Potty Training, I’m diving into something I see over and over with parents—how consistency can make or break your potty training journey (and your parenting in general). We chat about how anything done repeatedly becomes a habit, whether it’s good or bad. So if your kid is peeing on the floor every day, guess what? That’s their new normal. I’m breaking down why we sometimes let these patterns slip, how our toddlers are always watching and learning, and why you need to step into your leadership role as a parent—no asking for permission! We’ll talk about shifting from bad consistency to good consistency, and why building that solid foundation in the 0-6 years is key to everything down the road. Rock on, and let’s get you out of that pee-on-the-floor phase for good!


(00:11:26) Building Foundation Through Consistent Parenting Practices

(00:13:14) Consistent Boundaries for Healthy Child Behavior

(00:14:09) Boundary Setting for Preventing Entitled Behavior

(00:14:55) Stages of Effective Child-Rearing Approach


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⁠⁠⁠⁠Pooping Solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Withholding Group⁠⁠⁠⁠



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