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Jul 1
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What a Secure Relationship Actually Look...

bethathealinggirl
About this episode

If slow feels boring, if calm feels confusing, and if your nervous system is low-key addicted to chaos.... this one’s for you.

This week, we’re diving into what a secure relationship actually looks and feels like (even if your anxious attachment says, “Wait, is this it?”). Whether you’re dating, in a long-term partnership, or healing from relationship patterns that feel more like rollercoasters than real connection, I’m breaking down the 6 big shifts that define secure love.

✨ Spoiler alert: It’s not fast, intense, or dramatic. It’s steady. Consistent. Intentional. And deeply healing (even if your brain wants to sprint toward a vibe check).

We’re talking:

• Why moving fast ≠ connection

• How to tell if you’re chasing intensity instead of sincerity

• What “repair” looks like vs. reaction

• And why secure love might feel… weird (at first)

Plus, I’m sharing an honest question from one of my Healing Girl Gang members going through a painful breakup, and offering the truth we all need when we want to hold on instead of letting go. Let’s unlearn the chaos and relearn calm love, together.

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