Jul 22
Re-release: Expectations in Dating
In this episode, John and Vanessa answer listeners' questions about what healthy and unhealthy expectations are in dating, relationships, and marriage. 🔗 Resources & Links 👉 Apply to Inner Compass Academy: https://www.vanessabennett.com/inner-compass-academy 👉 Follow Vanessa o ... Show More
20m 15s
May 2025
Your Search for ‘The One’ Is Why You Feel So Alone
What if the love of your life isn’t one person, but many?In this video, I explore the myth of “the one,” the fantasy of being saved, and the deep loneliness that stems from chasing romantic perfection. We talk about why so many people feel unloved, unseen, and disconnected—becaus ... Show More
24 m
Jul 2025
314. 5 signs they're the 'one'
"What makes someone “the one”? There is so much pressure tied into that question. Instead, it might be better to ask: how can we focus on recognising the key pillars of long-lasting, fulfilling love? In today’s episode, we explore some fundamental characteristics so you can disce ... Show More
41m 34s
Oct 2025
Quinlan Walther: Stop Chasing Love Just Because You’re Lonely! (Do THIS to Attract the RIGHT Relationship)
Have you ever stayed in a relationship just to avoid being alone? Did staying make you feel better or worse over time? Today, Jay sits down with writer and relationship coach Quinlan Walther to explore what it truly means to build healthy, lasting relationships. Quinlan, known fo ... Show More
1h 31m
Today, John unpacks the modern myth of the soulmate — and flips it on its head. Instead of chasing “the one,” he invites us to rethink soulmates as built, not found— and explores how true connection comes not from perfection, but from shared growth, challenges, and the courage to repair after rupture.
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<p>In this episode, I talk about soulmates and why saying "the perfect person doesn't exist" is actually the most hopeful and compassionate realization you can have.</p> <p>Get "The New Mindset Journal" and "Single is your Superpower" (https://newmindsetwhodis.com/)</p> <p>Follow ... Show More
<p>In this episode, I talk about the true definition of a "soulmate" and how this reframing has the power to set you free from unfair pressure.</p><p>My new book "That's Bold of You" is available now on Amazon!</p><p>Text me: 312-584-4002</p><p>Instagram: @case.kenny</p><br/> <p> ... Show More