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Jun 24
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211 - This is Your Sign to Be Selfish: P...

Michelle Maros & Barb Schmidt
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Discover why putting yourself first isn’t selfish—it’s essential. From divorce to everyday self-care, we’re encouraging you to prioritize your peace, reclaim your freedom, and confidently choose yourself over others’ comfort. ⬇️


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You asked, we answered. In today’s episode, we’re diving into what it really means to prioritize your peace—even when it challenges others’ expectations. For generations, we’ve been told that self-care is selfish or even narcissistic, but we’re unpacking that outdated narrative and redefining what it means to truly care for yourself.

Barb shares how she reclaimed her freedom and individuality through divorce, and Michelle opens up about being undermined by people in her inner circle—and how she rose above it with confidence and clarity. Together, this mother-daughter duo explores the power of choosing yourself, embracing growth, and surrounding yourself with friends who lift you up rather than tear you down.

Here’s what we’re unpacking:

✨ You’re Not Selfish for Prioritizing Your Needs

You can’t pour from an empty cup. Self-care isn’t indulgence—it’s survival.

✨ Finding Freedom and Individuality After Divorce

Barb shares her journey of rediscovering herself post-divorce and what freedom truly looks like.

✨ Handling People Who Undermine You

Michelle opens up about how she overcame being criticized and dismissed—and how you can rise above it too.

Remember: When you care for yourself first, you show up for others in a deeper, more meaningful way. 💕

We’re so grateful you’re here with us. 💛 As a mother-daughter duo, we’re passionate about sharing the real-life lessons that have shaped us—so you can feel empowered to build confidence, embrace your individuality, and navigate life’s inevitable challenges with emotional strength and resilience.

This month on Life Happens, we’re diving deep into themes of self-advocacy, healing, and reclaiming your power. Each episode is rooted in mindfulness and designed to help you connect with your purpose, trust your inner voice, and prioritize your peace—especially during moments of grief, loss, and transition.

✨ Expect powerful practices, honest conversations, and heartfelt reminders to support your growth and self-care journey.

Join us next Tuesday for another healing, empowering episode of Life Happens with Barb & Michelle. 💕

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