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Jun 2025

35m 52s

Why you can't get over the person you ne...

About this episode

Why do situationships hurt more than actual relationships? Because there’s just enough hope to keep you delusional. We’re getting into why they mess with your head, how they keep you stuck, and the wildest stories from our personal archives. Like the guy who “ordered” Chloe a dress for his holiday party and photoshopped a Revolve receipt to gaslight her…or the one guy who asked Alexa if he could be poly… while she stayed monogamous. Let this be the episode to inspire you to dump your situationship.

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