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Nov 2023
25m 6s

Another type of fears

Afaf Ouardi
About this episode
Whether it’s past traumas, personal insecurities, trust issues, or societal expectations.. These can all lead to a fear of love that is characterized by overthinking the affections we receive and not knowing how to react to the care and attention that people give us. In this episode, more reflections about the topic are shared, and more roots are being revea ... Show More
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