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Dec 2021
48m 16s

When philosophy sucks

Afaf Ouardi
About this episode
Sometimes we are too impatient for some specific things, and sometimes planning kills our patience. Sometimes NOs are more powerful than YESs. Sometimes there is no hope or escapism. Is it an illusion or reality? Can you still be yourself when other things are impacting you ? What is impacting you the most ?And who are you, is it your identity or coping skil ... Show More
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