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Jun 2025
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306. Are we addicted to chaos?

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Do you feel as though you’re living in a constant whirlwind of deadlines, drama, and endless tasks, yet secretly feel a thrill from the chaos? This episode unpacks the question, ‘are we addicted to chaos?’ and why our brains might actually be drawn to this tumultuous state. We dive into the neurochemical rewards that hook us, how this plays out in our relationships and careers, and the hidden costs of living in perpetual overwhelm. We look at the deeper psychological roots and learn actionable steps to cultivate intentional calm amidst life's inevitable pressures.

Things we discuss:
• Why dopamine and adrenaline make chaos feel rewarding
• The draw of novelty, intensity, and seeking stimulation
• How chaos manifests in our lives
• The hidden costs of chronic chaos
• Psychological roots of our addiction to chaos
• Actionable strategies to reclaim calm and redefine productivity in your twenties

If your life feels like a constant fire drill, or you suspect you secretly thrive on the last-minute rush, this episode is for you.

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