Oct 26

How To Actually Grieve (with Mike Murray)

Unprocessed loss is one of the most common drivers of unwanted sexual behavior. When we don't allow ourselves to grieve, pain stays trapped in the body until it comes out sideways, often through unwanted sexual behavior. Mike Murray shares his story of losing his father at age ei ... Show More

35m 3s

Oct 19

Processing Betrayal Trauma Anger (with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck)

Why is anger after sexual betrayal so intense, unpredictable, and heartbreaking? Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck unpacks the complex dynamics of betrayal trauma anger for both the betrayed and the betrayer. You'll learn the S.C.I.P. protocol to manage anger and anxiety, the 7 phases of be ... Show More

31m 34s

Oct 12

How Jesus Heals Sexual Shame (Sermon on John 8:1-11)

When sexual sin and shame are exposed, how does Jesus respond? See how compassion overcomes condemnation in the story of the woman caught in adultery. This sermon was originally preached on Sunday, September 27, 2026 at the Husband Material Fall Retreat in Colorado. Previous serm ... Show More

35 m

Jul 2024

The 3 Views of S*x

Many people have different ways of viewing s*x but what does the Bible say about it? Could be unbiblical with your s*x life even if you're in the marital covenant? Join us on this podcast to find out! Pastor Mark's first-ever book on manhood just released for order! It ... Show More

7m 53s

Dec 2021

Subtle Same Sex Attraction

"What do I do when I or my spouse starts feeling some same sex attraction?" This question is one that has been whispered often but rarely spoken out loud in Christian circles due to the misconceptions and taboos attached to this issue. On this groundbreaking episode, Dave and Ash ... Show More

29m 52s

Feb 2022

The Secrets of Sexual Attraction

Today’s show is all about exploring sexual attraction; what it means and how does it fit into romantic love. By the end of today’s episode, you’ll better understand how and why YOU may feel sexually attracted to another person and how that can sometimes be distinct from feelings ... Show More

34m 35s

Dec 2021

Episode 63: A New Way of Thinking About Sexual Orientation

If you ask someone to describe their sexuality, odds are they’ll probably tell you something about the sex or gender of the people they’re attracted to. However, that’s just one of many aspects of sexuality that might be important to a given individual. Sexuality is multidimen ... Show More

51m 24s

Apr 2023

402: Understanding Our Sexuality, Desires And More!

Understanding our sexuality, and our partner's, may feel like a confusing and daunting task. Our sexuality is often influenced by cultural programming, issues of shame and any number of other factors. Listen to today's show to better understand your sexuality, what you desire and ... Show More

38m 10s

Jan 2025

How Do I Feel and What Do I Need?

Have you ever acted out sexually or given in to temptation and wondered, ‘Why did I do that?’ In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful connection between emotions, needs, and the choices we make. We’ll unpack why understanding your feelings and expressing your needs is ess ... Show More

26m 50s

Jul 2024

Some S*x is Immoral

The Bible is clear about s*x but is some s*x completely off limits? Join us for an informative podcast about what the Bible lays out for us on the issue of s*x! Pastor Mark's first-ever book on manhood just released for order! It's 30 years in the making, and over 100 ... Show More

4m 41s

Jul 2022

How We Found Sexual Satisfaction with Different Sex Drives | Relationship Theory

Dealing with mismatched sex drives can be horrifying, frustrating and a host of other undesired emotions for both partners. How do you find compromise when one partner is in the mood every day, any time ready to go, and the other partner could check in once or twice a week and be ... Show More

32m 24s

The Sexual Development Model (SDM): A Ne...