Unprocessed loss is one of the most common drivers of unwanted sexual behavior. When we don't allow ourselves to grieve, pain stays trapped in the body until it comes out sideways, often through unwanted sexual behavior. Mike Murray shares his story of losing his father at age eight, his personal healing process, and why we need to stop invalidating our pain ... Show More
Oct 19
Processing Betrayal Trauma Anger (with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck)
Why is anger after sexual betrayal so intense, unpredictable, and heartbreaking? Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck unpacks the complex dynamics of betrayal trauma anger for both the betrayed and the betrayer. You'll learn the S.C.I.P. protocol to manage anger and anxiety, the 7 phases of be ... Show More
31m 34s
Oct 12
How Jesus Heals Sexual Shame (Sermon on John 8:1-11)
When sexual sin and shame are exposed, how does Jesus respond? See how compassion overcomes condemnation in the story of the woman caught in adultery. This sermon was originally preached on Sunday, September 27, 2026 at the Husband Material Fall Retreat in Colorado. Previous serm ... Show More
35 m
Oct 8
Porn And Narcissistic Personality Disorder (with Dr. Alexandra Repke)
What is narcissistic personality disorder, and how does it interact with porn and sex addiction? For someone with NPD or narcissistic traits, what does healing and growth look like?Dr. Alexandra Repke (CSAT, EMDR, C-PD) is a Christian psychologist who typically work with successf ... Show More
30m 7s
Mar 2023
How to Find Clarity, Courage, and Compassion with Koshin Paley Ellison
In This Episode, You'll Learn
How to investigate suffering and learn how to work with it in a fresh way
Why we need to explore the impact of greed, shame, and other "giants" in our daily lives
Understanding the power of apology and how it can help us move away from shame and ... Show More
1h 9m
Nov 2024
208: How To Be A Sexually Healthy Man
The KS team is joined by Dr. Andrew Bauman, a licensed mental health counselor and writer whose work focuses on sexual health, abuse, and wholeness with men. Don't miss this incredible interview!
Huge thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our c ... Show More
47m 22s