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Jun 5
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Never Call Out A Narcissist, Unless You'...

Kris Reece
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Never Call Out a Narcissist… Unless You’re Prepared for This

You finally gather the courage to confront the narcissist, hoping for change or at least clarity. Instead? You’re met with an emotional explosion, word-twisting, and endless blame-shifting—leaving you questioning if you’re the problem.

You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. This episode unpacks why calling out a narcissist almost always backfires and how to protect yourself emotionally, spiritually, and even legally if you do.

👉 We’ll explore:

  • The explosive narcissistic rage and how even a gentle confrontation can turn into a battlefield
  • The shame boomerang—how your words get twisted, leaving you feeling like the villain
  • The pre-decided verdict—why you’re always guilty in their eyes, no matter how calmly you speak
  • The image management mode—how narcissists flip the script and rebrand themselves as the wounded hero

Throughout, you’ll discover scriptural insights and practical wisdom for dealing with this spiritual and emotional warfare.

🎭 Key Scriptures:

  • Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
  • Romans 12:18 — “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
  • Proverbs 17:15 — “Acquitting the guilty and condemning the innocent—both are detestable to the Lord.”
  • Proverbs 26:4 — “Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you yourself will be just like him.”
  • Isaiah 5:20 — “Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness…”

🔚 The Hard Truth
Real relationship requires honesty, humility, and mutuality—things a narcissist can’t offer. If you’re not prepared for the backlash, confronting them might cost you more than it’s worth.

👉 Next Steps:
🎥 Watch the next episode: 5 spiritual clues to help you discern if you’re dealing with a narcissist who’s using faith as a mask. Watch it here.📥 Grab your FREE 📥 💌Narcissist Survival Guide—packed with tools to help you stay grounded, clear, and spiritually protected. Get it here.

🎧 Tune in, and let’s walk through this together.

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