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Aug 2024
1h 32m

274 | Chaotic Hopeless Romantic: Scott’s...

Wyoh Lee
About this episode

Scott muses on love, queerness, sex therapy, and discovering kink through play.


 

00:00 Romance vs vulnerability and being a hopeless romantic.

12:40 Relationship goals, queer community, and tips for how to romance yourself.

27:48 Being ambiamorous: feeling monogamous and poly with different partners, and staying grounded in gratitude.

34:54 Levels of sexiness: with partners, friends, family, and alone.

46:53 What’s hot about Financial Domination, sexting, and getting turned on by partners’ kinks.

54:59 Joy in oral tastes and smells, normalizing penis anxiety, and unhelpful expectations set by porn and technology.

1:06:28 Exploring kinks, pressure play, and intuitive switching during sex.

1:18:00 Queer discoveries, rope play, sex parties, and service switch desires.


 

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