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Welcome to Episode 436 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, co-founders of the Somatica Institute, who speak to me about sex parties. In this episode, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual exploration, intentional relationship structures, and how sex parties can be transformative when approached with clear communication, consent, and a sense of curiosity.


Danielle and Celeste share their personal journey of entering the world of sex parties, offering valuable insight into how these experiences can deepen intimacy, spark erotic creativity, and provide healing opportunities for individuals and couples alike.


Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., are pioneers in intimacy, sexuality, and relationship coaching. Co-founders of the Somatica® Institute, they’ve transformed how love and connection are taught through their experiential, science-based Somatica Method. Together, they’ve trained over 1,000 coaches and helped countless individuals and couples embrace vulnerability, rediscover desire, and create deeply fulfilling relationships.


In this episode, you will hear:


·      Understanding the Modern Role of Sex Parties

·      Exploration of Monogamy, Polyamory Relationships

·      The Importance of Clear Communication and Consent

·      How Sex Parties Can Strengthen Emotional Intimacy

·      Navigating Jealousy, Compersion, and Erotic Curiosity

·      Preparation Tips for First-Time Attendees

·      How to Host a Consent-Centered and Inclusive Event

·      The Emotional Core Behind Erotic Desires

·      Addressing Relationship Misconceptions Around Opening Up

·      Resources for Finding and Learning About Sex-Positive Communities

 

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