We’re unpacking the 3 big reasons your anxious attachment isn’t healing, even if you’re doing everything “right.” Spoiler: it’s not about trying harder… it’s about trying differently.
If you’re a high-achieving, self-aware, anxious girlie who still feels like a walking red flag in relationships, this one’s for you.
We’re talking:
✨ Why performing yur healing ... Show More
May 5
What "If He Wanted To He Would" Is Actually Doing To Your Relationship
“If he wanted to he would” doesn’t create clarity it creates pressure, testing, and a constant feeling of “am I being chosen enough?” And that’s where the spiral starts. In this episode, we break down: 💭 Why “if he wanted to he would” fuels overthinking and relationship anxiety ... Show More
19m 32s
Mar 2025
#180: 5 Hard Truths About Healing Anxious Attachment
<p>Healing anxious attachment is a life-changing journey — but it’s not always easy. While moving toward secure attachment can bring more ease, confidence, and healthier relationships, it also requires confronting some uncomfortable truths along the way. In this episode, we’re un ... Show More
22m 39s
May 2025
Jessica Baum & Adam Lane Smith: Why Emotional Safety Is the Key to Real Love
<p>In this powerful episode, attachment expert Jessica Baum joins Adam Lane Smith to unpack one of the most essential yet misunderstood pillars of a healthy relationship: emotional safety. Together, they explore why safety isn’t just a “nice to have” in love, but a biological and ... Show More
1h 19m
Jul 2024
15. Why His Addiction Is NOT Your Fault (And Has NOTHING to Do With You, Your Body, Your Looks, etc.)
One of the hardest self-limiting beliefs I had to overcome on my healing journey was thinking his addiction was because I wasn't good enough, wasn't attractive enough, wasn't sexy enough, etc.I HATED my body after discovering the betrayal and my self-confidence was gooonnneeeee. ... Show More
32m 48s
Mar 2025
Why Healing Feels So Hard (And How to Move Through It)
Healing can feel overwhelming, draining, and downright difficult - but why? In this episode, we dive deep into the real reasons why healing feels so hard and how to move through it with self-compassion, patience, and trust.🔹 Are you judging yourself in the healing process?🔹 Do ... Show More
22m 36s
Jun 2025
#193: The Gifts of Anxious Attachment
<p>While it’s easy to focus on the struggles of anxious attachment — overthinking, people-pleasing, fear of abandonment — there are also real gifts that often go hand-in-hand with these attachment patterns. When held with awareness and intention, many of the traits we associate w ... Show More
12m 15s
Sep 2025
EP 578: 3 Lies You Tell Yourself When You're Dating Someone with Avoidant Attachment Style
Dating someone with an avoidant attachment style can leave you second-guessing yourself, waiting for scraps of connection, and telling yourself stories that keep you in pain. I’ve been there, and I know how easy it is to cling to beliefs that feel comforting in the moment but ult ... Show More
48m 32s