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May 2025
56m 8s

Attachment Issues

Spicy Babies
About this episode

In this extra spicy episode of Spicy Babies, Zee, Roxy, and Saaniya dive deep into attachment styles — where they come from, how they mess us up, and what it actually takes to heal. From clingy texts to avoidant spirals, we're unpacking the baggage (and yes, it’s carry-on and emotional).

Expect personal stories, very funny "words of the day," and our usual dose of chaotic wisdom. If you’ve ever said “I’m fine” when you’re absolutely not — this one’s for you.

Trigger warning: May cause sudden self-awareness. 💔➡❤‍🩹

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