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May 22
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Ep 113: A Woman’s Desire To Feel Special

Meg and Jacob O'Neill
About this episode

“When a woman starts performing in her relationship, she stops being seen.”


Every word in this episode is a mirror for the woman who quietly wonders, “Do I still matter?”

Meg & Jacob crack open part two of one of their most tender, triggering, and transformational convos yet what it means for a woman to want to matter, deeply, not just in her business or family but in her relationship.

We’re diving into the difference between being needed vs. being chosen, why female significance is not the same as attention-seeking, and how the fear of being too much makes women shrink their wildest longings.

You’ll hear the real-time reflections from their own partnership, including the raw moment Meg almost gave up, and how they found each other again not in roles, but in real presence.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, under-chosen, or like you have to “earn” your seat in love… this one is going to go straight to your heart.


🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

  • The difference between being significant and being useful
  • Why female longing is sacred—not dramatic or needy
  • The silent heartbreak of becoming "just the mom" in a relationship
  • Jacob’s reflection on what most men miss when their woman starts to pull away
  • How to feel chosen again without begging for attention
  • Why a man’s leadership must include emotional devotion
  • What it actually means to see, hold, and re-choose your woman daily


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