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Feb 2025
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246. Coaching, Therapy, and the Path to ...

Amanda Hess: Certified Life Coach For Neurodivergent Women
About this episode

In this episode, I’m breaking down the key differences between coaching and therapy—a topic that often confuses people. While both provide emotional support, they serve very different purposes. Coaching is action-oriented, focused on shifting your mindset, regulating emotions, and taking steps toward real change, whereas therapy tends to focus more on deep emotional processing and past traumas.

If you’ve ever wondered whether coaching is right for you or how it differs from therapy, this episode will give you the clarity you need!

🔹 Want to experience coaching firsthand? Join my upcoming masterclass for just $10 at joinamanda.ca.

Timestamps:

[00:00] - Introduction

  • Why I felt called to record this episode.
  • The common misunderstanding between coaching and therapy.

[02:15] - Why People Seek Coaching & How It Compares to Therapy

  • Many women come to coaching feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or emotionally dysregulated.
  • Coaching is not cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), though they have some overlaps.

[05:30] - What Coaching Looks Like in Practice

  • The first step in coaching is creating emotional safety.
  • I help clients regulate their nervous system so they can start thinking more clearly.
  • Simple tools like breathwork, movement, sensory engagement, and scheduling self-care.

[09:45] - The Shift from Emotional Regulation to Thought Work

  • Coaching helps you change how you think—not just what you think.
  • We begin questioning deeply ingrained beliefs that are keeping you stuck.
  • The difference between coaching and therapy: coaching is solution-focused and actionable.

[14:00] - How Social Conditioning Holds Women Back

  • Many of us have been taught to prioritize others’ needs over our own.
  • People-pleasing, overworking, and feeling like life is a performance rather than something you truly live.
  • How coaching helps you break free from these patterns and create a life that feels aligned.

[18:30] - Why Questioning Your Thoughts Is the Key to Transformation

  • Most of us believe our thoughts are absolute truths, but they’re just perspectives.
  • When we start questioning what we think is “right” or “necessary,” we unlock real change.
  • Coaching teaches you to reshape your mindset so you can take control of your life.

[22:00] - Closing Thoughts & Next Steps

  • The power of coaching in shifting your mindset and daily experience.
  • Want to dive deeper? Join my upcoming masterclass for just $10 at joinamanda.ca.
  • Connect with me on Instagram & TikTok (@TheAmandaHess) or book a free consult at amandahess.ca/bookacall.

Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: https://amandahess.ca

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