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Aug 18
How You Are Ruining a Good Relationship with Self Sabotage
Hey Girlies! It's your girl Clare back at it with another episode of the BeThatHealingGirl Podcast where we're diving into the real and sometimes messy parts of our love lives. 🌟 This week is all about self-sabotage. Yep, been there, sabotaged that... especially with those sweet ... Show More
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Aug 11
Anxious attachment making up fake scenarios? (My brain made up an affair!)
Have you ever been convinced something was wrong in your relationship... only to realize later your brain completely made it up? Maybe they took longer to text back. Maybe they seemed quieter than usual. Maybe one tiny moment turned into a full-blown story that had you convinced ... Show More
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Aug 4
What To Do When Your Anxious Attachment is Pushing a Good Person Away
Hey Girlies! It's your girl Clare back at it with another episode of the BeThatHEalingGirl Podcast where we're diving into the real and sometimes messy parts of our love lives. 🌟 This week is all about self-sabotage. Yep, been there, sabotaged that especially with those sweet, s ... Show More
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May 2025
#190: How to Stop the Anxious Spiral
<p>If you find yourself spiralling into anxiety — overanalysing a text, catastrophising worst-case scenarios, or feeling like your nervous system is in overdrive — this episode is for you.</p><p>Today we’re talking about how to <em>stop the anxious spiral</em> before it takes ove ... Show More
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Feb 2021
173. Greatest Hits Vol 2. Dating, Perfectionism, & Anxious Attachment
Do you lay awake at night obsessing over why a new date or partner took 3 hours to respond to your text instead of their usual 30 minutes? Or maybe you start to feel avoidant when a new partner wants to hang out too much, and worry about losing independence in a relationship? Wha ... Show More
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Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)
<p>There are many ways anxiety can show up in our relationships. When we like someone and worry about them losing interest. When we're waiting for a text back. When we overthink in a relationship. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the fears that activate anxious be ... Show More
42m 26s
Jul 2025
149: What Is Anxious Attachment and How It Shows Up in Dating and Relationships?
Struggling with constant overthinking in relationships? Sabrina explores anxious attachment with a focus on neuroscience and real healing. Learn why your brain reacts to silence as danger and how protest behaviors keep you stuck in cycles of anxiety. This episode reveals an under ... Show More
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#52 Anxious Attachments in Relationships
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Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating
Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over? In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxi ... Show More
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Aug 2024
#85 - How to Help Someone w/ Relationship Anxiety + ROCD
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Aug 2023
should I breakup with my partner? /w relationship anxiety coach Hannah ep.40
If you are someone who deals with anxiety, sometimes it manifests into our relationships. We tend to cling on, crave closeness and reassurance at all times. On today's episode, I have relationship anxiety coach, Hannah, on and we talk all things relationship anxiety. From the roo ... Show More
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Nov 2022
How to Stop Rushing + Obsessing Over Your Relationships
Have you ever found yourself obsessing, spiraling, and rushing your relationships? Maybe you've spent way to much time overanalyzing his texts, stalking his social media, or giving a guy way to much mental real estate. In today's episode, I'm going to help you reclaim your inner ... Show More
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Apr 2024
#137: Self-Soothing for Anxious Attachment
<p>In today's episode, we're talking all about self-soothing and anxious attachment. For most anxiously attached folks, self-soothing and self-regulation can be a real struggle. This typically shows up as an over-reliance on others (often a partner) to be our sole sourc ... Show More
21m 26s
Ever find yourself refreshing your texts like your life depends on it? Or spending 10 hours doing two hours of work because your brain won’t stop obsessing over that thing you said? Yep. This one’s for you, bb!
In this episode, I’m giving you powerful (and surprisingly calming) reminders for when your anxious attachment kicks in HARD. Whether you're deep in ... Show More
<p>Do they love me? Will they leave me? Do they genuinely love me?</p><p>These questions can pop into our heads when we have an anxious attachment.</p><p>Listen to our 2 part episode about Relationship Anxiety.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>We are no longer doing our Women’s Group, bu ... Show More
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are the partner of someone with relationship anxiety, this episode is for you.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you have relationship anxiety and want to be able to ask your partner for more intentional suppo ... Show More
