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Apr 2025
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You Confuse Emotional Avoidance with Bei...

Pearlieee
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You think you’re “chill”? You’re not. You’re avoiding. This video is for the ones who’ve been praised for being easy, low maintenance, unbothered—when really, you’ve just learned to bury your needs. We’re unpacking the truth about emotional self-abandonment, the silence you’ve mistaken for strength, and why your “cool girl” persona is costing you real connection.

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