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May 4
22m 6s

Only WHO can judge you???

Shelby Sacco
About this episode

Hi besties! 💗

In today’s episode, we’re talking about three truths that have completely shifted my mindset — and I hope they’ll do the same for you:

✨ Working on self-love is the most important thing you’ll ever do.
✨ Fearing judgment from others only holds you back.
✨ Judging others? That energy isn’t helping anyone, especially not you.

This is a conversation I revisit with myself all the time — and today, I wanted to talk through it with you. Because growth, healing, and becoming our best selves? It all starts with how we see ourselves and others.

I love you all so much. Thank you for being on this journey with me 🤍

🎧 Let’s dive in.

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