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Apr 2025
1h 16m

How to Change Your Personality with Olga...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Can we really change our personalities? In this episode, Forrest is joined by someone who’s actually tried most of the things we talk about on the podcast: journalist and author Olga Khazan. Olga shares the personal experiments that led to her becoming more extroverted and agreeable, and less neurotic. They discuss the Big Five personality traits, how behavi ... Show More
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