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Apr 20
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How to use pain to MOTIVATE you. Your tr...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

If you've been easily triggered by a situation recently, IT'S TIME TO REFRAME IT and use your triggers as the ultimate motivation to upgrade your life. Use triggers as the fire and the fuel to propel you forward into your destiny. Prob my fave episode this year so far ;)

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