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Apr 2025
19m 21s

Episode 95: Good girls die bitter: Rewri...

Valerie Jones
About this episode

What if the reason you feel stuck, numb, or unfulfilled isn't because you're broken, but because the 'good girl' inside you needs to die? 

In this fiery and vulnerable episode, I'm inviting you to take a brutally honest look at your life and ask yourself: 

What would your eulogy say, if you died today? 

This is a wake-up call for every woman who's been trying to do it right, play it safe, be nice, be liked, and perform maturity while secretly suffocating under the weight of it all. 

Here's what we dive into: 

  • Why 'good girls' die bitter - and how to make sure you don't become one 
  • The truth about how your eulogy is aready being written
  • What it really means to let the old identity die so the real you can finally live 
  • The power of choosing self-honesty over approval 
  • What softness, truth and presence can give you that performance never will 

You don't need more advice. You need to follow your own truth. 

This episode will crack you open - and set you free. 

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