Am I really the problem?

Are old emotional wounds triggering you today? A woman reached out and shares her struggles about choices she made about a pregnancy and how her partner may have lied about his communication with his ex at the beginning of their relationship. Challenging topics to cover. 

Can the on-off relationship work? What about long-distance relationships? I talk about that and also someone asked me if it's their social anxiety or someone's rude behavior that's to blame. It's a grab bag episode today. 

Other people's insecurities should not make you change for them. If they can't handle who you are, is it on you to make them comfortable or should they just adjust, adapt, or leave you alone? 

<p>People can say all kinds of stuff about us—about our looks, our intelligence, or even job prospects. And sometimes, it can be hurtful. However, we need to always remember that, just because someone says something about us, it doesn't mean it's true.  In order for us to figure ... Show More

Hey Rehabbers: Today is simple. If you have been hurt, this podcast is for you. If you wonder if someone is for you, this podcast is for you. Listen to every word and apply it to your life. It All Starts With You. 

We’ve all heard the saying: if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. But isn’t that a terrible way to look at life? Because if you go into everything with negativity, you might miss the best thing that could ever happen.But, dear listener, the saying is a saying for a rea ... Show More

Why do some opinions bounce right off us, while others stick like taffy, lingering in our minds and draining our energy? This isn’t random—it’s actually a clue to how our brains process feedback and, more importantly, what we really believe about ourselves. In this episode, I’m d ... Show More

Do you ever look at someone else's life and then ask yourself, "What is wrong with me?". It's easy to compare ourselves to what we perceive as another person's reality. This episode we talk about what the real reality is! 

<p>Ignoring the truth can stop you from stopping binge eating. What truth am I referring to? Listen to this episode to find out so you can be honest with yourself and stop stopping yourself.</p> <p> </p> <p>Interested in working with me? Go to <a href= "http://www.coachkir.com/gr ... Show More

<p>In this episode, I talk about emotional safety in a relationship. I talk about why it's not what we think it is, and questions to ask yourself to determine if your relationship is grounded in safety.</p><p>My book, "That's Bold of you" is available on Amazon.</p><p>Instagram: ... Show More