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Feb 2025
1h 8m

Kinky Autistic Sex Nerd: Jack’s Update

Wyoh Lee
About this episode

Pegging explorations, unexpected orgies, and sex clubs with friends—Jack shares updates about her own life plus their research on the intersection of kink and autism.


 

00:00 How a formal autism diagnosis helped them realize what they do and don’t understand about neurotypical behaviors

07:04 Enjoying tit-clit-tit flogging + when IS sensory play sexual or nonsexual?

12:38 Flogging tips for beginners

14:18 How a PhD assignment led to an unexpected oral sex orgy

18:34 Open to orgies with friends and why you should NEVER bite a clit without consent

21:50 A field trip to a San Francisco sex club

23:03 Having a threesome with a pregnant woman and her husband who are beautifully in love

28:50 Educational squirting experience with a big double-ended dildo

31:34 Discovering a more recent preference for penetration and staying connected post-threesome

35:45 First time pegging a dude and future harness explorations

40:32 Sleeping with her dentist and a mouth full of pubes

44:53 A sixth sense for what a dick will look like before seeing it

47:30 Navigating a mismatch of sexual rhythms and why they always do a debrief after sex

54:01 Underwater hot tub blowjobs and a partner losing his shorts

56:51 Excited for double penetration, dating more women, and for their sex life to keep getting better and better

1:00:06 How YOU can help research the huge overlap of autism and kink

1:02:52 Realizing that her PhD in human sexuality is only the beginning


 

Jack’s episode from October 2019 | The Ooey Gooey Game


 

📈 STATS | 31 genderfluid autistic human, she/they pronouns, single, sex educator, sex researcher, into: sensations, impact play, human sexuality, squirting, sex parties, underwater oral


 

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