How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart Sex, I’m talking through two specific positions that bring the kink – and another classic that you can spice up with a little power play.
First, I’m looking at Cowgirl/Cowboy and talking through its pros, cons, an ... Show More
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Why Your Fantasies Are Sexually Healthy
If you've ever felt ashamed of a sexual fantasy, I want you to know that having one isn't a sign that something is wrong with you — it's actually a sign of a healthy sex life. Fantasies can reveal what you truly crave, deepen your connection with a partner, and completely transfo ... Show More
39m 14s
Mar 3
How to Have Sex While On Antidepressants
If you're on antidepressants and your sex drive has completely disappeared, I want you to know that you're not broken, and you don't have to choose between feeling mentally well and having a fulfilling sex life. SSRIs like Lexapro, Zoloft, and Prozac are genuinely life-changing f ... Show More
40m 55s
Feb 27
The Beginner's Guide to Anal Pleasure
Solo anal play might be the most misunderstood sex act out there, and I’m done letting shame, myths, and bad porn narratives keep you from one of the most pleasurable things you can do for yourself. Whether you're completely new to anal or just looking for a place to finally star ... Show More
28m 5s
Jan 2025
Kinky Adventures That Left Him Begging For More
💋 OMG, where do I even start?! My Miami weekend with Stranger was hot, wild, and dripping with passion—literally. 🌊🔥 We laughed, explored, and had a connection that went straight to the bedroom (and, trust me, it did not disappoint). On top of that, I’ve got this exciting, sli ... Show More
29m 10s
Jul 2025
Safe Words & Spankings: Inside The Kinky Coaching Bedroom
Ready for a whip-smart convo that’ll tie you up in all the best ways? 😉 Miss Kay returns with her pal Stacy to talk about launching her “Top to Bottom Coaching” biz, and honey—it’s hot. They chat about newbies, naughty goals, kink confidence, and how exploring pleasure can unloc ... Show More
34m 45s
Feb 2025
Let Me Give You Some Dirty Advice
This episode is a wild ride, and I’m here for it! I’m answering listener questions about age gaps (ooh, the drama!), prostate pleasure (yes, yes, YES!), and why we all deserve some privacy while enjoying our favorite adult content. 😘 Plus, I’m sharing tips on how to spice things ... Show More
42m 32s
May 2024
#51 Painful Sex Solutions With Nora Langknecht
Research shows that the majority of women will experience pain during sex at some point in their lives. But just because painful sex is common, it doesn't mean you have to accept it as normal! To talk about this, we're joined by Nora Langknecht, a sexuality educator, reproductive ... Show More
37m 16s
Feb 2017
#5: BDSM, Jealousy & Pegging: Sex Q&A With Dr. Kat Van Kirk
Today sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk answers listeners sex questions on BDSM, pegging, jealously in relationships, the porn "problem" and many more. If you got questions you'd like answered anonymously by a sex expert in a future episode, please send your question to sean@badgirl ... Show More
38m 52s