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Jul 25
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Three-Way Switch Play & Forest Fun: Merc...

Wyoh Lee
About this episode

Hands-free orgasms, pine-needle sex, and choir room hookups—Mercedes shares how she's finding power, pleasure, and play through queer community, public fun, and creative consent.
 

📈 STATS | 18 bisexual white cis femme, kinky, queer, drag king.
 

TIME CODE

00:00 Meet Mercedes: bisexual, kinky, masochist-sadist switch, drag king, and public play enthusiast
05:06 Negotiating her first scene as a submissive with cords, drawing, and wax
10:10 Defining sex, shame, and the realities of early sex ed and period-shaming
14:41 Formative trauma, shutting down desire, and rediscovering sexuality through therapy and queer friends
22:14 Drawing her own porn, masturbation inspiration, and being caught by her dad
24:09 Braces stuck together mid-kiss, secret kink with an older trans masc partner, and public play out of necessity
28:40 Log sex, pine needles, and being fucked in the forest
30:11 A dreamy 6’4” femme top, getting small, and discovering her submissive side
33:15 Hot threesomes, switchy group dynamics, and one partner who wouldn’t put down the controller
34:51 Poly pleasures and heartbreak: when boundaries around protection are broken
37:05 How music, dancing, and creative connection build trust and turn her on
38:57 Navigating kink curiosity with a vanilla partner, and why she won't be anyone’s experiment
40:08 Favorite rope tricks, using belts for control, and a surprise boob grab escape
41:35 Loving vanilla sex too: lap sitting, full-body pressure, and hickey preferences
43:04 From wax to bite marks to bruises: what her masochist side loves
47:00 Pussy pleasure maps, nipple sensitivity, and a vibrator that hits both spots
48:38 Wanting to train under a dominatrix and explore more rope and professional play
 

🤩 TOPICS | Abortion talk, actor kink dynamics, adventurous partners, aftercare needs, anal curiosity, anxiety around sex talks, ass grabbing, assigned female at birth, bisexual identity, biting during sex, blood play adjacent, body art kink, body sensation preferences, bratty submission, bruising kink, butch attraction, casual hookups, chest sensitivity, childhood sex ed gaps, childhood sexual shame, clitoral stimulation, college dating life, communication kinks, confident dom attraction, consent negotiation, control play, creative threesome dynamics, daddy issues, dating older people, degradation curiosity, direct STI conversations, dominant partner criteria, drawn porn, dry humping orgasm, emotional safety, erotic biting, erotic drawing, erotic storytelling, experimental queerness, femme tops, feminist porn, fingering in group sex, first girlfriend, fluid power exchange, forest sex, full-body pressure kink, glue stick tampon joke, group makeouts, hair pulling, hands-on sex ed, hickeys as kink, high school sex stories, historical fiction erotica, hookup logistics, improvisational sex, initiation shame, kink discovery journey, kinky queer sex, lap sex, laptop cable bondage, learning through erotic books, lesbian therapist, lingerie shopping, loud orgasms, making out in public, masochist tendencies, masturbation with fantasy, medically accurate sex ed, mixed orientation threesomes, multiple orgasms, mutual masturbation, neck kissing, nerdy doms, nipple play, nonbinary attraction, oral fixation, orgasm from thigh stimulation, outgrowing purity culture, painful first experiences, partner-switch dynamics, period shame, physical sex definitions, platonic cuddling, polyamory boundaries, power imbalance awareness, private part marking, queer community healing, queer high school sex, queer kink visibility, relationship trust repair, rough sex preferences, sadist tendencies, school bathroom makeouts, secret hookups, self-discovery through therapy, self-pleasure routines, sex after trauma, sex ed by books, sexual healing, sexual initiation stories, sexual trauma survival, shaving mishaps, sharing STI results, shower masturbation, shy doms, side-of-neck marks, situational submission, skin sensitivity, soft doms, solo vibrator play, sore muscles from sex, strap-on curiosity, submissive vulnerability, switch identity, teaching doms, teenage kink exploration, thigh grabbing, touching waist kink, trauma-informed play, trust after betrayal, unplanned kink negotiation, vanilla sex appreciation, vibrator with clit arm, visible bruises, wax play, weighted pressure kink, witchy sex therapist, writing erotic stories.

 

Mercedes’ update from January 2024 | Masochistic Soft Dom

 

Originally released January 2023.

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