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Aug 2024
57m 42s

Best Of: Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Leh...

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.)

We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!).

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How to Improve casual sex
  • Insights from the LGBTQ+ Community
  • Tools for talking to your kids about sex


Show Notes:


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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