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Feb 2025
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Episode 692: Yes, Your Ex Is Suffering T...

LUCIA
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Is your ex in pain, even though they dumped you?  If so, what are some signs that they're suffering as much, if not more, than you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about whether your ex is in pain and the signs to look for.

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