Comparing new partners to your ex?

Reverse age-gap relationships are making headlines everywhere. Why are we so fascinated by them? The underlying reason reveals an outdated narrative. The current intrigue surrounding older women dating younger men isn't really about the ‘men.’ It's about our assumptions regarding ... Show More

You don’t have to be perfect to find love—but you do need clarity. Discover how knowing what you want and communicating it clearly can transform your dating life and relationships. Do you need to have your life completely together before you can find love? Not at all. What matter ... Show More

It’s unfair. You didn’t deserve the breakup or the thoughtless behavior that came with it. Learn how shock, betrayal, and rumination keep you trapped, and discover how to close the wound, reclaim your peace, and move forward. Breakup Triage: Stop the emotional bleeding first Why ... Show More

<p>If your ex is dating someone new, is it too late to get them back?  Should you just give up and move on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives tips on how to steal your ex back from their rebound.<br>Get <a href="http://www.theartoflove.net/coaching">coaching!</a></p> 

<p>Should you date someone who recently got out of a relationship?  If not, how long should you wait to make sure they're emotionally available?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses how to navigate through a situation where someone is not yet over their ex.</p> 

<p>How will your ex feel when you move on or appear move on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how moving on may actually bring your ex back.<br><br>Get <a href="https://theartoflove.net/coaching">coaching!</a><br>Download Silenzio App:  <a href="http://bit.ly/SilenzioAp ... Show More

<p>If you've found yourself comparing your new relationship to your ex, you're not alone—and it doesn't necessarily mean you're not over them. In this episode, I break down two powerful steps to help you move past those comparisons and focus on what truly matters: creating clarit ... Show More

<p>Is your ex in pain, even though they dumped you?  If so, what are some signs that they're suffering as much, if not more, than you?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia talks about whether your ex is in pain and the signs to look for.<br><br>Get <a href="http://www.theartoflove.n ... Show More

When you think back on your past romantic relationships, what do you feel?  Regret? Disappointment? Shame? You may be surprised to hear this, but dating lots of “Mr. Wrongs” is actually the best thing you can do to prepare yourself for your Mr. Right. I explain why in today’s epi ... Show More

<p>Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history.</p><p>In this episode, we talk about the problem of this “retroactive jealousy”, how it affec ... Show More

Do you have an ex you're forced to stay in contact with? Do you sometimes wish you could totally remove them from your life? What about casual dating, is that something you can do? What does it look like? In this episode, we talk about being friends with your ex, casual dating, a ... Show More

A lot of women ask me whether I think it’s a good idea to be friends with an ex. My answer is, it depends on your motive. In today’s LOVE Life, we’ll take a look at your reasons behind wanting to hold on to a former flame, and how it could impact your future relationship with the ... Show More