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Feb 2025
54m 14s

I Want to Feel Wanted

Esther Perel Global Media
About this episode

This is a classic session of Where Should We Begin? After ten years, a husband tells his wife he no longer wishes to be married. A month later, stuck in limbo, they come to Esther. She helps them have an honest conversation about their expectations, desires, and the ways in which their role as parents has left little room for intimacy.      


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